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I am all for ideals ,,believe me ,,, but i live the real life every
minute as it is ,, no ideal will pay my bills , heal me , or have emapthy for me when i need it ... mirjam On 1/13/05 1:36 AM, in article , "Mirjam Bruck-Cohen" wrote: Cheryl ,, i agree with you that it should be so,,,,,, I say that in the eyes of God and in the eyes of the law, we are all to be treated equally! But that obviously isn't good enough for you! But is this really happening ,,, in real life ???? mirjam Cheryl No Mirjam - an ideal. Cheryl |
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"Mirjam Bruck-Cohen" wrote Don`t you think that IF PLATO would have met Freud ,,,, Stalin,,, Ghandi just to name some names that lived and thought after him ,,, maybe he would have changed some of his ideas as well ???// Of course he would have--he changed his ideas during his lifetime, as he revisited the same problems in later works. Don't you think it is one of the signs of an intelligent person, that they do not become complacent, but keep thinking? Dawne |
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Re-opening this can of worms, I just heard the statistic that only 35% of
current retirees have pension income. So, that someone doesn't have a pension is *not* a matter of making poor job choices, but actually is statistically twice as likely as having lucked into a job with a pension. -- Finished 12/8/04 -- Army bear ornament WIP: Fireman's Prayer (#2), Amid Amish Life, Angel of Autumn, Calif Sampler, Holiday Snowglobe Paralegal - Writer - Editor - Researcher http://hometown.aol.com/kmc528/KMC.html |
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And of those 35%, I wonder how many didn't have it offered until late in
life. Our situation is one of those. Victoria's comment notwithstanding (luck has nothing to do with it), I beg to differ. There are only so many jobs, a growing population, a set of birth circumstances. Luck (or the gods, if you prefer) can play a huge role. Not to downplay hard work. That certainly also enters into the equation. We're just not all born equally, nor does our society offer equal circumstances. That's a common myth. The idea of pulling oneself up by the bootstraps is a worthy value. But the miracles of a few doesn't make it so for the masses. We can also point to those who make poor choices. But to paint the masses that didn't make it into that proverbial corner is equally unfair and untrue. Dianne Karen C - California wrote: Re-opening this can of worms, I just heard the statistic that only 35% of current retirees have pension income. So, that someone doesn't have a pension is *not* a matter of making poor job choices, but actually is statistically twice as likely as having lucked into a job with a pension. -- "The Journal of Needlework" - The E-zine for All Needleworkers http://journal.heritageshoppe.com |
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Well, I consider it very "Lucky" that I was born and raised in the UK and
not in Uganda, for instance!!! PURE luck! Pat P "escape" wrote in message ... Like I said, luck has nothing to do with the outcome of life. Nothing what so ever. I don't know what "gods" you are talking about. I don't think "god" has anything to do with life, either. Not the bible, not anyone can make that claim. The only claim we can make is that which is tangible. All else is faith and not fact. Fact is, people DO pull up by their bootstraps (your slogan, not mine) and people can and do change the course of their lives by making good choices and decisions. To say anything else is a false claim, at best. I can name any amount of adversity I've encountered in my life, and there are mountains of it, but not one slight circumstance, not one drop of luck has entered into how I live today. I live today based on the decisions and choices I made a second ago. And this one from a second after that. All of my life now is a direct result of the second prior to this one. Nothing is luck. Nothing is special. This is my belief and experience. Karma? That's another story and not too many people in this newsgroup can wrap their heads around that concept, so it's useless to discuss it. On Sat, 22 Jan 2005 13:54:31 -0600, Dianne Lewandowski opined: And of those 35%, I wonder how many didn't have it offered until late in life. Our situation is one of those. Victoria's comment notwithstanding (luck has nothing to do with it), I beg to differ. There are only so many jobs, a growing population, a set of birth circumstances. Luck (or the gods, if you prefer) can play a huge role. Not to downplay hard work. That certainly also enters into the equation. We're just not all born equally, nor does our society offer equal circumstances. That's a common myth. The idea of pulling oneself up by the bootstraps is a worthy value. But the miracles of a few doesn't make it so for the masses. We can also point to those who make poor choices. But to paint the masses that didn't make it into that proverbial corner is equally unfair and untrue. Dianne Karen C - California wrote: Re-opening this can of worms, I just heard the statistic that only 35% of current retirees have pension income. So, that someone doesn't have a pension is *not* a matter of making poor job choices, but actually is statistically twice as likely as having lucked into a job with a pension. Need a good, cheap, knowledge expanding present for yourself or a friend? http://www.animaux.net/stern/present.html |
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escape wrote:
I can name any amount of adversity I've encountered in my life, and there are mountains of it, but not one slight circumstance, not one drop of luck has entered into how I live today. I understand where you're head is at with these comments. That is a belief system, not a fact. :-) I live today based on the decisions and choices I made a second ago. And this one from a second after that. All of my life now is a direct result of the second prior to this one. Nothing is luck. Nothing is special. Tell that to the victims of the tsunami, or of the holocaust, or of those born in poverty stricken areas of the world. It wasn't their choice, nor a choice made seconds before it happened. Tell that to the millions who lost their jobs these past few years, many because of the misdeeds of corporate executives. They didn't have any choices. Granted, what they do from that point on is their choice. But that is also providing that they aren't suffering severe emotional trauma, physical trauma, financial ruin which may take years to heal the damage. This is my belief and experience. And you are, of course, entitled to your belief systems, and I'm entitled to point out other ideas which may "collide" with your belief systems. Dianne -- "The Journal of Needlework" - The E-zine for All Needleworkers http://journal.heritageshoppe.com |
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"escape" wrote in message ... On Sat, 22 Jan 2005 16:47:40 -0600, K opined: (Karen C - California) wrote in : Re-opening this can of worms, I just heard the statistic that only 35% of current retirees have pension income. Source please? So, that someone doesn't have a pension is *not* a matter of making poor job choices, but actually is statistically twice as likely as having lucked into a job with a pension. I left a well-paying job in industry that had no pension other than some profit-sharing (in addition to retirement savings) for a job in higher education that paid barely a third of that, but had not only a lump sum retirement plan but employer matching for savings contribution. I vetted several offers until I found the one that gave me what I wanted. It was a conscious decision, and luck had nothing to do with it It wasn't luck that made me work three jobs to get through grad school loan-free so I could get a job in higher ed -- and managed to add money to my savings at the same time. It wasn't luck that made me realize the high tech job I had wasn't going to be around much longer, and I better do something about it proactively. I gave up the short-term benefits of making a boatload of money for long-term security. I did my research. I didn't rely on luck. K Yes. That's correct. So you can see that lucky claims could be experienced both ways. Some people prefer to say it was bad luck they lost their job, etc. Some people say it was good luck to be born somewhere. I say that's hooey. If more people paid attention to what they do now, their future will be different. We have far more control of things than the subtlety of lucky claims. Many, or most people cannot wrap their minds around these concepts. V Just a quick question. Does being responsible for the life and comfort of others have any bearing on whether one truly has the ability to make choices. For some people the only way out would be to abandon someone who desperately needs them. What then? Would the choice to be interested only in one's self be a good thing? I'm also not sure your conviction that many, or most people cannot wrap their minds around that concept isn't a definite putdown and an insult to the intelligence of the members of this group. Is there something I'm missing here because I don't necessarily agree with a lot of what's being said but it seems to be coming from a highly intelligent group of people and sure holds my interest. Lucille Lucille |
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