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OT entertaining a 6 year-old?
Friday a beloved relative had foot surgery and died from a blood clot. He
was only 57. We are stunned and hurting. His 6 year-old granddaughter has asked to come stay with me during the church and cemetery rituals. It's pretty tough to put our grief aside, let her parents and grandparents grieve and try to shelter the young one at the same time and good that she thinks I'm a comfortable person to visit with. Hard to put all that into a preamble . . . but - I have a few ideas on keeping a 6 year-old occupied - cookies, drawing, learning some simple tune on the child size piano. Will probably let her drive the golf cart in the pasture. The pickup truck quilt is underway and she can choose some faces from my I Spy stash for looking out the truck's windows. Help me. Our youngest grands are in their twenties and I am badly wanting reminding of the attention span and needs of one this young. What do I do for distraction and/or comforting? Polly |
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OT entertaining a 6 year-old?
On Oct 3, 10:13*pm, "Polly Esther" wrote:
Friday a beloved relative had foot surgery and died from a blood clot. *He was only 57. *We are stunned and hurting. *His 6 year-old granddaughter has asked to come stay with me during the church and cemetery rituals. *It's pretty tough to put our grief aside, let her parents and grandparents grieve and try to shelter the young one at the same time and good that she thinks I'm a comfortable person to visit with. * * Hard to put all that into a preamble . . . but - I have a few ideas on keeping a 6 year-old occupied - cookies, drawing, learning some simple tune on the child size piano. *Will probably let her drive the golf cart in the pasture. *The pickup truck quilt is underway and she can choose some faces from my I Spy stash for looking out the truck's windows. * * Help me. *Our youngest grands are in their twenties and I am badly wanting reminding of the attention span and needs of one this young. *What do I do for distraction and/or comforting? *Polly Polly, I am so sorry for your family's loss. The same thing happened to my grandmother. All they were doint was putting a little pacemaker under the skin of her knee, which wasn't healing well after a previous surgery. You sound like a dream babysitter though, my gosh! I'm betting the golf cart will be a big hit. One thing I do remember about 6 year old girls also is that they love to play dress-up, and if there's costume jewelry or mardi gras beads involved, all the better. Does she like dolls? Bet she'd love to sit with you and help create simple doll clothes or blankets. (but it seems not all little girls play with dolls nowadays). Do little girls still play Candyland? Naw, probably not. They probably have Ipad versions or something. Sherry |
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OT entertaining a 6 year-old?
How about a little finger painting? What I used to do with my kids was
make a bowl of instant vanilla and a bowl of chocolate instant pudding. Put an old T-Shirt of dad's on them... gave them each a cookie sheet and let them "paint away". Licking fingers was not a problem. Make a picture -- then erase it away and make another! Always kept them quite busy for a while. Have fun! And I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of someone close to you. -- Kate in MI http://community.webshots.com/user/K_Groves "Polly Esther" wrote in message ... Friday a beloved relative had foot surgery and died from a blood clot. He was only 57. We are stunned and hurting. His 6 year-old granddaughter has asked to come stay with me during the church and cemetery rituals. It's pretty tough to put our grief aside, let her parents and grandparents grieve and try to shelter the young one at the same time and good that she thinks I'm a comfortable person to visit with. Hard to put all that into a preamble . . . but - I have a few ideas on keeping a 6 year-old occupied - cookies, drawing, learning some simple tune on the child size piano. Will probably let her drive the golf cart in the pasture. The pickup truck quilt is underway and she can choose some faces from my I Spy stash for looking out the truck's windows. Help me. Our youngest grands are in their twenties and I am badly wanting reminding of the attention span and needs of one this young. What do I do for distraction and/or comforting? Polly |
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OT entertaining a 6 year-old?
Thank you, Sherry. I do have some fun jewelry and wigs: Cleopatra, Ronald
McDonald and Cher. Since I can ( sort of) do photo/computer . . she might enjoy dressing and doing pictures. Good idea. Yes. Polly "Sherry" wrote in message ... On Oct 3, 10:13 pm, "Polly Esther" wrote: Friday a beloved relative had foot surgery and died from a blood clot. He was only 57. We are stunned and hurting. His 6 year-old granddaughter has asked to come stay with me during the church and cemetery rituals. It's pretty tough to put our grief aside, let her parents and grandparents grieve and try to shelter the young one at the same time and good that she thinks I'm a comfortable person to visit with. Hard to put all that into a preamble . . . but - I have a few ideas on keeping a 6 year-old occupied - cookies, drawing, learning some simple tune on the child size piano. Will probably let her drive the golf cart in the pasture. The pickup truck quilt is underway and she can choose some faces from my I Spy stash for looking out the truck's windows. Help me. Our youngest grands are in their twenties and I am badly wanting reminding of the attention span and needs of one this young. What do I do for distraction and/or comforting? Polly Polly, I am so sorry for your family's loss. The same thing happened to my grandmother. All they were doint was putting a little pacemaker under the skin of her knee, which wasn't healing well after a previous surgery. You sound like a dream babysitter though, my gosh! I'm betting the golf cart will be a big hit. One thing I do remember about 6 year old girls also is that they love to play dress-up, and if there's costume jewelry or mardi gras beads involved, all the better. Does she like dolls? Bet she'd love to sit with you and help create simple doll clothes or blankets. (but it seems not all little girls play with dolls nowadays). Do little girls still play Candyland? Naw, probably not. They probably have Ipad versions or something. Sherry |
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Ummm, good. I like that. My cookie sheet surfaces are not really
deplorable but certainly scratchy. A taped on sheet of parchment ought to be a good artistic surface. Thank you, Kate. And thank you for your sympathy. We will have to put out own grieving aside for a while. We'll care for the little one first and then deal with our heart aches. Polly "Kate in MI" wrote in message ... How about a little finger painting? What I used to do with my kids was make a bowl of instant vanilla and a bowl of chocolate instant pudding. Put an old T-Shirt of dad's on them... gave them each a cookie sheet and let them "paint away". Licking fingers was not a problem. Make a picture -- then erase it away and make another! Always kept them quite busy for a while. Have fun! And I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of someone close to you. -- Kate in MI http://community.webshots.com/user/K_Groves "Polly Esther" wrote in message ... Friday a beloved relative had foot surgery and died from a blood clot. He was only 57. We are stunned and hurting. His 6 year-old granddaughter has asked to come stay with me during the church and cemetery rituals. It's pretty tough to put our grief aside, let her parents and grandparents grieve and try to shelter the young one at the same time and good that she thinks I'm a comfortable person to visit with. Hard to put all that into a preamble . . . but - I have a few ideas on keeping a 6 year-old occupied - cookies, drawing, learning some simple tune on the child size piano. Will probably let her drive the golf cart in the pasture. The pickup truck quilt is underway and she can choose some faces from my I Spy stash for looking out the truck's windows. Help me. Our youngest grands are in their twenties and I am badly wanting reminding of the attention span and needs of one this young. What do I do for distraction and/or comforting? Polly |
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I have a 6 yr old, loves to play games on the internet. Of course
certain websites that I've all ready checked out.Although the only one I can think of right now is lego.com. But you can also search printables. Does she like dot to dot, and puzzles and games cuz there are tons out there that you could print before hand. Baking any kind of cookies of course. That's all I can think of right now cuz it's late and I'm tired. Good Luck Joanna On 10/3/2010 9:13 PM, Polly Esther wrote: Friday a beloved relative had foot surgery and died from a blood clot. He was only 57. We are stunned and hurting. His 6 year-old granddaughter has asked to come stay with me during the church and cemetery rituals. It's pretty tough to put our grief aside, let her parents and grandparents grieve and try to shelter the young one at the same time and good that she thinks I'm a comfortable person to visit with. Hard to put all that into a preamble . . . but - I have a few ideas on keeping a 6 year-old occupied - cookies, drawing, learning some simple tune on the child size piano. Will probably let her drive the golf cart in the pasture. The pickup truck quilt is underway and she can choose some faces from my I Spy stash for looking out the truck's windows. Help me. Our youngest grands are in their twenties and I am badly wanting reminding of the attention span and needs of one this young. What do I do for distraction and/or comforting? Polly |
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What a lovely time it must have been to have to go to bed with the chickens.
I can't imagine trying to entertain a 6 yr old. So sorry for your loss. -- Di I'm creative! You can't expect me to be neat too. Vic Australia "Polly Esther" wrote in message ... Thanks and no thanks. The little one has gone to her grandmother's. We had a happy, busy time. I am Killed. No one mentioned the energy level of the 6 year-old. Someone should have warned me to take a nap before she arrived and to get help. I think I'll go to bed tonight with the chickens. I may go before that. Polly |
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Can't help with any ideas for entertaining this precious child but know you
have my heartfelt sympathy in this time of sorrow. Love and hugs, Leslie "Polly Esther" wrote in message ... Friday a beloved relative had foot surgery and died from a blood clot. He was only 57. We are stunned and hurting. His 6 year-old granddaughter has asked to come stay with me during the church and cemetery rituals. It's pretty tough to put our grief aside, let her parents and grandparents grieve and try to shelter the young one at the same time and good that she thinks I'm a comfortable person to visit with. Hard to put all that into a preamble . . . but - I have a few ideas on keeping a 6 year-old occupied - cookies, drawing, learning some simple tune on the child size piano. Will probably let her drive the golf cart in the pasture. The pickup truck quilt is underway and she can choose some faces from my I Spy stash for looking out the truck's windows. Help me. Our youngest grands are in their twenties and I am badly wanting reminding of the attention span and needs of one this young. What do I do for distraction and/or comforting? Polly |
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OT entertaining a 6 year-old?
Polly, I'm so sorry for your loss, but you are so blessed that this 6-year-old chose you to stay with. We know
you're pretty special, and apparently she does too! I've been trying to remember what entertained my niece and nephew when they were around that age, and believe it or not, it was the sewing machine! They couldn't reach the pedal or really do much on their own, but as long as they were in the sewing room with me, they were happy. Of course, it helped that I had a TV in there to draw their attention when they got bored with what I was doing. We mostly made little doll blankets, but a couple of times I bought a pillow form, and we made covers for them. They loved that! -- Louise in Iowa nieland1390@mchsi dot com http://community.webshots.com/user/louiseiniowa On 10/3/2010 10:13 PM, Polly Esther wrote: Friday a beloved relative had foot surgery and died from a blood clot. He was only 57. We are stunned and hurting. His 6 year-old granddaughter has asked to come stay with me during the church and cemetery rituals. It's pretty tough to put our grief aside, let her parents and grandparents grieve and try to shelter the young one at the same time and good that she thinks I'm a comfortable person to visit with. Hard to put all that into a preamble . . . but - I have a few ideas on keeping a 6 year-old occupied - cookies, drawing, learning some simple tune on the child size piano. Will probably let her drive the golf cart in the pasture. The pickup truck quilt is underway and she can choose some faces from my I Spy stash for looking out the truck's windows. Help me. Our youngest grands are in their twenties and I am badly wanting reminding of the attention span and needs of one this young. What do I do for distraction and/or comforting? Polly |
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On Oct 3, 11:46*pm, Sherry wrote:
On Oct 3, 10:13*pm, "Polly Esther" wrote: Friday a beloved relative had foot surgery and died from a blood clot. *He was only 57. *We are stunned and hurting. *His 6 year-old granddaughter has asked to come stay with me during the church and cemetery rituals. *It's pretty tough to put our grief aside, let her parents and grandparents grieve and try to shelter the young one at the same time and good that she thinks I'm a comfortable person to visit with. * * Hard to put all that into a preamble . . . but - I have a few ideas on keeping a 6 year-old occupied - cookies, drawing, learning some simple tune on the child size piano. *Will probably let her drive the golf cart in the pasture. *The pickup truck quilt is underway and she can choose some faces from my I Spy stash for looking out the truck's windows. * * Help me. *Our youngest grands are in their twenties and I am badly wanting reminding of the attention span and needs of one this young. *What do I do for distraction and/or comforting? *Polly Polly, I am so sorry for your family's loss. The same thing happened to my grandmother. All they were doint was putting a little pacemaker under the skin of her knee, which wasn't healing well after a previous surgery. You sound like a dream babysitter though, my gosh! I'm betting the golf cart will be a big hit. One thing I do remember about 6 year old girls also is that they love to play dress-up, and if there's costume jewelry or mardi gras beads involved, all the better. Does she like dolls? Bet she'd love to sit with you and help create simple doll clothes or blankets. (but it seems not all little girls play with dolls nowadays). Do little girls still play Candyland? Naw, probably not. They probably have Ipad versions or something. Sherry Do little girls still play Candyland? Naw, probably not. They probably have Ipad versions or something. I was never a little girl (I assure you) but I was 6 a few times, and I did spend considerable time (a week to a month at a shot) with... my grandparents and other elders, who had no clue how to entertain a 6 yr. old kid. One set wasn't too bad - they had a few toys left from aunts & uncles, & took me fun places - the other's idea of entertaining me was dragging me to Bingo with her.... 'nuff said. Kids still play games, including board games (though I'd go for something a little more challenging/stimulating than C-land.) I prefer that *younger* kids play face-to-face board games rather than on a computer due to the socialization with oth)er human beings involved. There are skills to be learned/honed that cannot be learned on a computer. That said, I'm gonna do a quick 180 and also extol the virtues of *selective* television (Kids programming, WB cartoons, DVDs). As a child of the '60s (you know that, right?) the TV was my nanny. ("Ohhhh, THAT explains a lot," you muse.) Nevertheless, for those brief intervals when Grammy needs a few to regroup, an hour or two of judiciously chosen Toob is ok. Read aloud. Some of my best memories of that age were of adults reading aloud to me. Fairy taled, Arabian Nights, Science Fiction, whatever she likes... Kids can *listen*/comprehend at levels far above what they can actually read (or view in movies, for that matter). Polly, *you* drive the golf cart and let her do a nature walk & collect stuff to do things with later. Stones, leaves, flowers (if there are any left), ferns, gator eggs... (oh, yeah... she's a girl - maybe not gator eggs. ...or maybe so.) You've probably got arts & crafts covered. You mentioned drawing. Got crayons? Got blocks? (building blocks, legos... something free- form requiring creativiry/imagination). I've never been a parent, but I've rented on weekends, and IIRC, 6 yr. olds don't have a lot of gender differentiation yet when it comes to activities. She may also need something more physical (exercise or to wear her down to your speed - depends on the kid). My last bit of advice. Think like Yogi. Kids (especially 6 and younger) are more like dogs than we think. Kids & dogs are always on the wrong side of a door. Kids & dogs always need something just as you sit down. Kids & dogs always need a snack/drink at the most inopportune times. The list goes on... Doc |
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