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For anyone's information:
Lazurite: http://mineral.galleries.com/mineral...e/lazurite.htm Lazulite: http://mineral.galleries.com/mineral...e/lazulite.htm Ahh. I love the internet - there's so much info you can find with just a few keystrokes!! Mj -- ================================= Marjean Cline Halsey Trading Company eBay ID: ladymorgause http://www.stores.ebay.com/id=1146230?refid=store http://cgi6.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dl...ladymor gause ================================= I went to look it up in my Audubon (and yes, I should have done that before my other post) too. I see that the lazulite in your link comes from Afganistan. Is that where the stone you got is from? I see we also have it in North America, and that it also goes by the name lapis lazuli here. |
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I have unsubscribed to rec.crafts.beads do to the continual assault there.
I have been flamed, insulted, and criticized. I didn't see any of the "Very co-operative, eager to help" you described. I am saddened that beaders would stoop to such terrorism. I apologized for my blunder and explained that I was new and yet they call my apology complaining. I do not take kindly to insults, I'm a very sensitive person, sometimes I'll admit, too sensitive. I am very emotional and intense so I tend to take everything personally for that's how I am. I say what I mean and mean what I say and do everything whole-heartedly. I'm quite friendly once you get to know me, but before then I'm super shy. If I get a bad reaction to something I stop doing it and in the case of groups, if I feel insulted and unwanted, I leave. Just today, I got a flame from Kathy N-V that was so violent and resentful that I was shocked. My boyfriend insists I should just ignore it, but any emotion directed towards me is taken to heart. It's my nature. She may not have meant it personally, but even then my boyfriend agreed it was totally uncalled for. The fact she treated me like that after I honestly apologized hurt. I am sad to say I will not be visiting rec.crafts.beads again. I am evidently unwelcome there. As for my knowledge of rocks, well, it's just one of the many topics that I know lots about - animals, rocks, plants, beads, the weather, ecology, fossils, art, writing, drawing, mythology, astrology, astronomy, painting, computers, and travel. I didn't learn much of anything in school mainly because the system here in upstate NY is pathetic, but I have always had a fascination with learning. In 4th grade, I was introduced to rocks and plants by my slightly bizarre teacher, Mrs. Marsh. I have since researched all the topics that interest me to the point it drives my boyfriend nuts. I have gone all over the northeastern US, Eastern Canada, Ireland, Wales, Scotland, and England to find quality stones for beading and my ever- growing personal collection (as well as satisfying my lust for travel and exploring). From jupiter-marked agate to kyanite, to lab-created bismuth crystal from Germany to mahogany obsidian straight from Mexico, I collect everything that fascinates me. Each piece I have is from high quality dealers or passionate collectors like myself. Most of my collection is not for sale, but the stones that are will be lovingly put into hand-made bead and wire jewelry. My knowledge is not absolute though, I have quite a number of stones that I do not know the name of. I do my best to research everything about the stones I have and will never mislabel a stone. If I don't know it, I don't guess. The lazurite I have comes from a shop in Montreal, Canada where the owner bought it from a dealer in the Middle East. I do not know if it was Afganistan or not, but it may have been. I bought numerous stones from her (at a lovely discount due to the size of my order, lol). I've always considered lurking to be bad, but it seems this newsgroup thing is warped. I talk about my beaded stuff on a bead group and I'm flamed, I think lurking is bad and you suggest it. It is quite confusing. I will try to remember all these rules and hopefully I will stop getting flamed by unsympathetic people. Thanks for being nice, Elaine "Christina Peterson" wrote in news:1076812558.502252@prawn: Oh good. I'm glad you're sticking around to ask questions. Cross-posting -- One of the problems with it is that many people cross-post to several groups but don't participate in any. That's not being part of a newsgroup; it's just spamming. Also, what works in one group might be a no-no in another group. Like the AD thing here. This group, RCB, is for sharing information. We sometimes show off something we've done which is posted on a web site. If it's something on eBay, it's supposed to have "AD" in front of it. This doesn't always happen, but, for example, we have 4 of them (threads) today. If someone wants to share a picture of something someone else has for sale that they like, then they don't write ad; and usually there are a bunch of them in a post. We also share information about tutorials, where someone might look for a specific item, sites about photographing bead stuff for portfolio or eBay. When we share stuff that's personal, or about the weather we are supposed to put OT (off topic) in the subject line. That doesn't always happen either. "Lurking" is the best way to get a feel for the rules and also a good way to get a feel for personalities. I don't think anybody really came down hard on you. But I say that, knowing the personalities here. Believe me, RCB is one of the most friendly groups I've ever come across. Very co-operative, eager to help. So please don't take offense where nothing personal was intended. I will admit you might have gottn a couple short responses due to a couple of people around here who were spamming here on purpose. Thanks for the link. And the correction. I went to look it up in my Audubon (and yes, I should have done that before my other post) too. I see that the lazulite in your link comes from Afganistan. Is that where the stone you got is from? I see we also have it in North America, and that it also goes by the name lapis lazuli here. There was another stone I went to first because it was first in the index. Lazulite. They look very dissimilar except for general color. The structure of Lazulite looks more translucent and crystaline, though I see the lazurite from afganistan has a crystal structure too. How did you get your background in rocks ? Geology? Jewelry? Traditional properties? I'd like to invite all of you at, RCM to come take a peak here at RCB. We're a bead group (not other crafts, except periferally) but since many people here sell their products, there's a lot of good marketing information here. Kandice is especially good for marketing information. Thanks for your response. Tina |
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" I didn't see any of the
"Very co-operative, eager to help" you described. I am saddened that beaders would stoop to such terrorism." Thank you all for your patience and your helpfulness and support. I lurked and was a little afraid, however, I jumped in a little at a time. I enjoy the different personalities and opinions. I have learned quite a bit and have changed my views accordingly. Bottom line: I think you guys are great, warts and all. Hugs to all -- Debbie (New Mexico) Life is too short --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.580 / Virus Database: 367 - Release Date: 2/6/2004 |
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You don't seem to understand that she spammed a newsgroup...under your
tutelage. If you are so experienced in ng's then you should have educated her in what is appropriate and what is not. It is unfortunate to think that she might have been a great contributor, but she set off on the wrong foot, and when it was pointed out, the pouting started. No one is perfect, but she straight away blamed the lack of a manual for how to use newsgroups, rather than admitting that she should have lurked...even for one day...to see how newsgroups operate. Nowhere has she been flamed on the group. I went back and read every message in the thread. Nope, not even a spark, never mind a flame. She was educated in what is appropriate ng behavior, and chose to pout and blame. "Maelstrom" wrote in message ... It's a shame you've driven her off. She would have been a great contributor. The point of a worldwide community like Usenet is FREEDOM! We have enough rules and laws in everyday life. There are other Usenet forums where she was accepted warmly. Keep your elitist beading cult here to yourselves. Maelstrom In article , says... I have unsubscribed to rec.crafts.beads do to the continual assault there. I have been flamed, insulted, and criticized. I didn't see any of the "Very co-operative, eager to help" you described. I am saddened that beaders would stoop to such terrorism. I apologized for my blunder and explained that I was new and yet they call my apology complaining. I do not take kindly to insults, I'm a very sensitive person, sometimes I'll admit, too sensitive. I am very emotional and intense so I tend to take everything personally for that's how I am. I say what I mean and mean what I say and do everything whole-heartedly. I'm quite friendly once you get to know me, but before then I'm super shy. If I get a bad reaction to something I stop doing it and in the case of groups, if I feel insulted and unwanted, I leave. Just today, I got a flame from Kathy N-V that was so violent and resentful that I was shocked. My boyfriend insists I should just ignore it, but any emotion directed towards me is taken to heart. It's my nature. She may not have meant it personally, but even then my boyfriend agreed it was totally uncalled for. The fact she treated me like that after I honestly apologized hurt. I am sad to say I will not be visiting rec.crafts.beads again. I am evidently unwelcome there. As for my knowledge of rocks, well, it's just one of the many topics that I know lots about - animals, rocks, plants, beads, the weather, ecology, fossils, art, writing, drawing, mythology, astrology, astronomy, painting, computers, and travel. I didn't learn much of anything in school mainly because the system here in upstate NY is pathetic, but I have always had a fascination with learning. In 4th grade, I was introduced to rocks and plants by my slightly bizarre teacher, Mrs. Marsh. I have since researched all the topics that interest me to the point it drives my boyfriend nuts. I have gone all over the northeastern US, Eastern Canada, Ireland, Wales, Scotland, and England to find quality stones for beading and my ever- growing personal collection (as well as satisfying my lust for travel and exploring). From jupiter-marked agate to kyanite, to lab-created bismuth crystal from Germany to mahogany obsidian straight from Mexico, I collect everything that fascinates me. Each piece I have is from high quality dealers or passionate collectors like myself. Most of my collection is not for sale, but the stones that are will be lovingly put into hand-made bead and wire jewelry. My knowledge is not absolute though, I have quite a number of stones that I do not know the name of. I do my best to research everything about the stones I have and will never mislabel a stone. If I don't know it, I don't guess. The lazurite I have comes from a shop in Montreal, Canada where the owner bought it from a dealer in the Middle East. I do not know if it was Afganistan or not, but it may have been. I bought numerous stones from her (at a lovely discount due to the size of my order, lol). I've always considered lurking to be bad, but it seems this newsgroup thing is warped. I talk about my beaded stuff on a bead group and I'm flamed, I think lurking is bad and you suggest it. It is quite confusing. I will |
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Please don't be unreasonably and needlessly insulting. Or stick to your own
group. The only reason I had previously cross posted, was to invite others in your group to come over here and check out some of the marketing information available. Tina "Maelstrom" wrote in message ... It's a shame you've driven her off. She would have been a great contributor. The point of a worldwide community like Usenet is FREEDOM! We have enough rules and laws in everyday life. There are other Usenet forums where she was accepted warmly. Keep your elitist beading cult here to yourselves. Maelstrom In article , says... I have unsubscribed to rec.crafts.beads do to the continual assault there. I have been flamed, insulted, and criticized. I didn't see any of the "Very co-operative, eager to help" you described. I am saddened that beaders would stoop to such terrorism. I apologized for my blunder and explained that I was new and yet they call my apology complaining. I do not take kindly to insults, I'm a very sensitive person, sometimes I'll admit, too sensitive. I am very emotional and intense so I tend to take everything personally for that's how I am. I say what I mean and mean what I say and do everything whole-heartedly. I'm quite friendly once you get to know me, but before then I'm super shy. If I get a bad reaction to something I stop doing it and in the case of groups, if I feel insulted and unwanted, I leave. Just today, I got a flame from Kathy N-V that was so violent and resentful that I was shocked. My boyfriend insists I should just ignore it, but any emotion directed towards me is taken to heart. It's my nature. She may not have meant it personally, but even then my boyfriend agreed it was totally uncalled for. The fact she treated me like that after I honestly apologized hurt. I am sad to say I will not be visiting rec.crafts.beads again. I am evidently unwelcome there. As for my knowledge of rocks, well, it's just one of the many topics that I know lots about - animals, rocks, plants, beads, the weather, ecology, fossils, art, writing, drawing, mythology, astrology, astronomy, painting, computers, and travel. I didn't learn much of anything in school mainly because the system here in upstate NY is pathetic, but I have always had a fascination with learning. In 4th grade, I was introduced to rocks and plants by my slightly bizarre teacher, Mrs. Marsh. I have since researched all the topics that interest me to the point it drives my boyfriend nuts. I have gone all over the northeastern US, Eastern Canada, Ireland, Wales, Scotland, and England to find quality stones for beading and my ever- growing personal collection (as well as satisfying my lust for travel and exploring). From jupiter-marked agate to kyanite, to lab-created bismuth crystal from Germany to mahogany obsidian straight from Mexico, I collect everything that fascinates me. Each piece I have is from high quality dealers or passionate collectors like myself. Most of my collection is not for sale, but the stones that are will be lovingly put into hand-made bead and wire jewelry. My knowledge is not absolute though, I have quite a number of stones that I do not know the name of. I do my best to research everything about the stones I have and will never mislabel a stone. If I don't know it, I don't guess. The lazurite I have comes from a shop in Montreal, Canada where the owner bought it from a dealer in the Middle East. I do not know if it was Afganistan or not, but it may have been. I bought numerous stones from her (at a lovely discount due to the size of my order, lol). I've always considered lurking to be bad, but it seems this newsgroup thing is warped. I talk about my beaded stuff on a bead group and I'm flamed, I think lurking is bad and you suggest it. It is quite confusing. I will |
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Maelstrom, You are so far wrong, and so far out of line, that the last time
I've heard such insulting nonsense was when a trolling group came and attacked here. The truth is, Kathy is remarkably well informed. She is being truthful and non-personal. Pragmatic, honest, no hidden agenda. People here are trying to be supportive of Elaine. Why are you encouraging her to feel mistreated. You are doing her a misservice. Tina "Maelstrom" wrote in message ... Kathy, you are so full of yourself it's not even funny. You are a bloody Usenet terrorist, spreading all sorts of lies. Why don't get a life and stop flaming like a lamer, eh? Leave innocent newbies alone. Elaine had not "lurked" on Usenet before, I introduced her to them as a way to help sell her beadwork that she just started on. I'm a usenet veteran and I have never seen anyone post such rude BS. I think you're the one who ruined your rep, if you ever had one. I'm sure lots of people think you're a real witch (being mild) after that last post. Maelstrom In article news.com, says... Do yourself a favor - you've totally wrecked your credibility here with your advertising and petulant complaining. Get yourself a new Hotmail account, learn the proper way to promote your online business, and start again. |
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I love the things you have to say about education and share many of your
interests. Plants, herbs, animals, ecology. I am a conservationist and traditionalist, and a hunter and gatherer. I am fascinated by ethnobotany! and in anthropology in general. I was always good at math, but computers drive me crazy. I love physics, but don't care for chemistry, and have had the privelege of knowing some amazing people in space exploration, and mechanical innovation. I'm not much onto astrology or mythology, but am into Shamanism, journeying, Reiki, "energy manipulation". I do a little in martial arts, the soft arts like Tai Chi, Aikido, Qi Gung. I love to travel and my granddaughter was born in Ukaraine (as was her mother). I have rocks too. I have a small mammoth tooth and mastadon tooth, which had been found during mining operations here in Alaska. There's a woman down by Anchorage who I get most of my most interesting rocks from. And a man in Anchoage with a mine in the Brooks Range who I got some wonderful minerals, and stones from. And everywhere I go I get more rocks/stones crystals. Another major interest for me is mental health, especially since I have become disabled by the brain exhaustion of Depression. Fortunately, through therapy I have worked my way through the melancholy part of Depression. Part of my Depression was long standing Co-Dependence But I want to address the first half of your post, too. This is the second time you have used a post of mine, which had been intended as friendly, as a jumping off point for being angry. I'm aware that the anger in it isn't addressed to me. Because I work at not taking things personally. In my earlier post, I just didn't want you to to be posting something incorrect. And just as honestly, I know stones quite well, though not as well as you obviously, and if it appears to me that something is off about the stone or its name, it probably will appear that way to many others. And so you should learn from this that more description is needed that just to call something "genuine", including when it is. That's part of marketting. That's the kind of thing you can benefit from learning so you can sell more. All of us can. That's not a put down, just a marketting tip. So tell me, what does this post here mean? I know you apologized. There's no problem or rejection of your apology, or need to keep apologizing again. Relax. When I posted my last post after you said you had been treated harshly, I looked up all the posts to you, and found no harsh treatment. Since you, and maelstrom, came back with anger, I'm am finding that you are getting some unvarnished truth and impatience that you must find uncomfortable. Who has flamed you and how? Why do you feel insulted? Why do you feel criticized instead of helped? Why don't you see any co-operative and eager to help, when that was exactly what I was doing? And, terrorism? I would think that Americans would have a better understanding of what terrorism is now. And honey, this ain't it. Shirley did tell you what "terrorism" has resulted from spamming (unauthorized advertising) as a lesson about why it's important not to do it even inadvertantly. In other places, I have been flamed. I have been threatened. Just for disagreeing with someone, or making a claim that wasn't believed. You are not being treated roughly, and especially noone is intentionally hurting you. Elaine,you haven't been insulted. If you are so sensitive that being corrected and educated feels like an insult to you, you got some major issues to work out. And if you think that's an insult, well, we all have issues to work with. You can run around throwing away your energy on defensiveness. It's just a poor choice. It's also a pain in the ass, but if you want the right to be sensitive, emotional, intense and to take everything personally, you have to give everyone the right to do so too (that's the pain in the ass part). Then you would really be finding you had started a major flame war. Kathy's post was not a threat. Kathy was not resentful -- she's pretty pragmatic and was telling you facts, telling you the definition of spamming, and the dangers, the possible violent results that can come of it, not "directing emotion" at you. Her advise is generally very valued here in this group because of the accuracy of her information. She has helped many people get through red tape to get to the heart of a solution when people get the run around. She is an accurate and honest person. But she is also pragnatic and does not direct things in a pesonal manner. About lurking. Yeah, that's a ticklish one. In daily conversation "lurking" is something bad. And in some groups "lurkers" are those people who sit at the edges and lurk and never seem to say anything unless it's a disagreement. It's used here in the same way you'd hear it in 12 Step programs. -- Come to meetings, but listen before you talk, so you'll know more about how things work. Anyway, girl, come join the party here. Or e-mail me any time. Tina "Elaine" wrote in message . 3.2... I have unsubscribed to rec.crafts.beads do to the continual assault there. I have been flamed, insulted, and criticized. I didn't see any of the "Very co-operative, eager to help" you described. I am saddened that beaders would stoop to such terrorism. I apologized for my blunder and explained that I was new and yet they call my apology complaining. I do not take kindly to insults, I'm a very sensitive person, sometimes I'll admit, too sensitive. I am very emotional and intense so I tend to take everything personally for that's how I am. I say what I mean and mean what I say and do everything whole-heartedly. I'm quite friendly once you get to know me, but before then I'm super shy. If I get a bad reaction to something I stop doing it and in the case of groups, if I feel insulted and unwanted, I leave. Just today, I got a flame from Kathy N-V that was so violent and resentful that I was shocked. My boyfriend insists I should just ignore it, but any emotion directed towards me is taken to heart. It's my nature. She may not have meant it personally, but even then my boyfriend agreed it was totally uncalled for. The fact she treated me like that after I honestly apologized hurt. I am sad to say I will not be visiting rec.crafts.beads again. I am evidently unwelcome there. As for my knowledge of rocks, well, it's just one of the many topics that I know lots about - animals, rocks, plants, beads, the weather, ecology, fossils, art, writing, drawing, mythology, astrology, astronomy, painting, computers, and travel. I didn't learn much of anything in school mainly because the system here in upstate NY is pathetic, but I have always had a fascination with learning. In 4th grade, I was introduced to rocks and plants by my slightly bizarre teacher, Mrs. Marsh. I have since researched all the topics that interest me to the point it drives my boyfriend nuts. I have gone all over the northeastern US, Eastern Canada, Ireland, Wales, Scotland, and England to find quality stones for beading and my ever- growing personal collection (as well as satisfying my lust for travel and exploring). From jupiter-marked agate to kyanite, to lab-created bismuth crystal from Germany to mahogany obsidian straight from Mexico, I collect everything that fascinates me. Each piece I have is from high quality dealers or passionate collectors like myself. Most of my collection is not for sale, but the stones that are will be lovingly put into hand-made bead and wire jewelry. My knowledge is not absolute though, I have quite a number of stones that I do not know the name of. I do my best to research everything about the stones I have and will never mislabel a stone. If I don't know it, I don't guess. The lazurite I have comes from a shop in Montreal, Canada where the owner bought it from a dealer in the Middle East. I do not know if it was Afganistan or not, but it may have been. I bought numerous stones from her (at a lovely discount due to the size of my order, lol). I've always considered lurking to be bad, but it seems this newsgroup thing is warped. I talk about my beaded stuff on a bead group and I'm flamed, I think lurking is bad and you suggest it. It is quite confusing. I will try to remember all these rules and hopefully I will stop getting flamed by unsympathetic people. Thanks for being nice, Elaine "Christina Peterson" wrote in news:1076812558.502252@prawn: Oh good. I'm glad you're sticking around to ask questions. Cross-posting -- One of the problems with it is that many people cross-post to several groups but don't participate in any. That's not being part of a newsgroup; it's just spamming. Also, what works in one group might be a no-no in another group. Like the AD thing here. This group, RCB, is for sharing information. We sometimes show off something we've done which is posted on a web site. If it's something on eBay, it's supposed to have "AD" in front of it. This doesn't always happen, but, for example, we have 4 of them (threads) today. If someone wants to share a picture of something someone else has for sale that they like, then they don't write ad; and usually there are a bunch of them in a post. We also share information about tutorials, where someone might look for a specific item, sites about photographing bead stuff for portfolio or eBay. When we share stuff that's personal, or about the weather we are supposed to put OT (off topic) in the subject line. That doesn't always happen either. "Lurking" is the best way to get a feel for the rules and also a good way to get a feel for personalities. I don't think anybody really came down hard on you. But I say that, knowing the personalities here. Believe me, RCB is one of the most friendly groups I've ever come across. Very co-operative, eager to help. So please don't take offense where nothing personal was intended. I will admit you might have gottn a couple short responses due to a couple of people around here who were spamming here on purpose. Thanks for the link. And the correction. I went to look it up in my Audubon (and yes, I should have done that before my other post) too. I see that the lazulite in your link comes from Afganistan. Is that where the stone you got is from? I see we also have it in North America, and that it also goes by the name lapis lazuli here. There was another stone I went to first because it was first in the index. Lazulite. They look very dissimilar except for general color. The structure of Lazulite looks more translucent and crystaline, though I see the lazurite from afganistan has a crystal structure too. How did you get your background in rocks ? Geology? Jewelry? Traditional properties? I'd like to invite all of you at, RCM to come take a peak here at RCB. We're a bead group (not other crafts, except periferally) but since many people here sell their products, there's a lot of good marketing information here. Kandice is especially good for marketing information. Thanks for your response. Tina |
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Personally I think he's being very supportive of me and helping me deal
with the harshness I was dealt. The fact that Kathy and others on there were so harsh isn't his doing or mine. I wanted to share my love of beads and showcase my work, but I was insulted and more. That's fine though, there are other groups like this one that welcome me. I'm not mad or sad, just disappointed. Elaine "Christina Peterson" wrote in news:1076884406.436031@prawn: Maelstrom, You are so far wrong, and so far out of line, that the last time I've heard such insulting nonsense was when a trolling group came and attacked here. The truth is, Kathy is remarkably well informed. She is being truthful and non-personal. Pragmatic, honest, no hidden agenda. People here are trying to be supportive of Elaine. Why are you encouraging her to feel mistreated. You are doing her a misservice. Tina |
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