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Happiness is
I read once a title in Readers Digest
Happiness is an invention of Holywood !!!! mirjam |
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On Oct 4, 12:19*am, Jangchub wrote:
On Fri, 3 Oct 2008 05:08:07 -0700 (PDT), wrote: I read once a title in Readers Digest Happiness is an invention of Holywood !!!! mirjam Happiness and bliss is the natural state of our minds, covered over with defilements, ignorance, attachment, and delusions. *All conscious beings have the ability to remove the pollution of disturbing emotions, delusions and attachment. *It's a pathway which leads to pure mind in the most subtle state. *It required a great deal of hard work on ones own mind. *Nobody can make us happy or unhappy. *Only we can do that to ourselves by the way we label objects and how we view subjects. Hollywood happiness is actually the worst kind of suffering. Victoria "There are known knowns. These are things we know that we know. There are known unknowns. That is to say, there are things that we know we don't know. But there are also unknown unknowns. There are things we don't know we don't know." Donald Rumsfeld http://gotbodhicitta-wangmo.blogspot.com/ You are invited to send this opinion of yours to either Readers Digest Or Holywood !!!! mirjam I believe every person has moments of happiness as he /she has moments of other feelings ,,, mirjam |
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Happiness and bliss is the natural state of our minds, covered over with defilements, ignorance, attachment, and delusions. *All conscious beings have the ability to remove the pollution of disturbing emotions, delusions and attachment. *It's a pathway which leads to pure mind in the most subtle state. *It required a great deal of hard work on ones own mind. *Nobody can make us happy or unhappy. *Only we can do that to ourselves by the way we label objects and how we view subjects. I read it read again and don`t agree , you are very lucky if you can believe in this , mirjam |
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"Bruce Fletcher (remove dentures to reply)" wrote in message ... wrote: Happiness and bliss is the natural state of our minds, covered over with defilements, ignorance, attachment, and delusions. All conscious beings have the ability to remove the pollution of disturbing emotions, delusions and attachment. It's a pathway which leads to pure mind in the most subtle state. It required a great deal of hard work on ones own mind. Nobody can make us happy or unhappy. Only we can do that to ourselves by the way we label objects and how we view subjects. To me happiness is the absence of sadness -- Bruce Fletcher Stronsay, Orkney UK "To every complex problem there is a solution which is simple, neat and wrong" I don't fully agree. You can be sad about something and at the same time be happy about something else and one doesn't negate the other. To simplify that, for me it's often true that happiness is a warm puppy. Lucille |
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anne wrote:
- having the right size open back frame, a can of dark green spray paint to tone down the fake gold colour, and a sharp Xacto knife to finish the $10 bargain bought at seminar - an invitation to dinner to see the girls ;-) next!!!!! Happiness is being alive to enjoy the natural beauty of this world...... Barbara |
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Jangchub wrote:
On Sat, 4 Oct 2008 09:52:04 -0700 (PDT), wrote: Nobody can make us happy or unhappy. Only we can do that to ourselves by the way we label objects and how we view subjects. I read it read again and don`t agree , you are very lucky if you can believe in this , mirjam I do believe this. I agree that nobody can "make you happy". I've known too many people who are decidedly unhappy with themselves and set out to find someone who can "make them happy". Which is a ridiculously high expectation to place on anyone in the first place, and when the other person fails to do that, they continually set off in search of a new person they think will make them happy, instead of looking inside to find out what it is that causes them to not be happy on their own. Of course, some of it is how much it takes to make you happy. With his "entitlement mentality", XH was not going to be happy unless he had a flashy car and unlimited money (way more than my decent paycheck could provide him). Whereas I could be made happy by some pretty new fiber or my boss bringing a brownie back from lunch for me. Running a disability support group, I see people who are able to make themselves happy by turning lemons into lemonade or re-inventing themselves when they can no longer pursue their previous career, and I see people who simply can't or won't figure out what else they can do when they can't do that any more. If you had asked me 10 years before I got sick what my hobbies were, I would've said dancing, softball, volleyball, and I do a little reading and needlework when it's too wet or too late at night to do the others. 10 years after I got sick, the answer would have been different, that I do a lot of reading and needlework while resting on the couch, and watch the sporting events on TV because I physically can no longer participate. (Well, I could, but would literally die trying.) -- Karen C - California Editor/Proofreader www.IntlProofingConsortium.com OCTOBER IS DISABILITY AWARENESS MONTH Finished 9/9/08 - Butterfly Drama (Dimensions) WIP: Nativity from "Countdown to Christmas" book, Oriental Kimono (Janlynn), MLI The Teacher (gift to the library), Bethany Angel (Marbek) Retrieved from UFO pile: Marbek's Snow Angel, MLI Farmers Market CFSfacts -- where we give you the facts and dispel the myths Myths, with research cites: http://www.aacfs.org/images/pdfs/myths.pdf Newest research blog: http://journals.aol.com/kmc528/Lifeasweknowit/ AOL BLOGS CLOSING OCTOBER 31 |
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Jangchub wrote:
Sometimes we or I meet up with people who are vexacious and in that case it is one of several possibilities. A good friend, who has her own health problems, is very good about asking me "are you upset with me over something, or is it the pain talking?" before she decides how to react when I'm not exactly Little Mary Sunshine. I think that's a good phrase for most people to learn, especially as we get older and even the healthier ones start dealing with arthritis. -- Karen C - California Editor/Proofreader www.IntlProofingConsortium.com OCTOBER IS DISABILITY AWARENESS MONTH Finished 9/9/08 - Butterfly Drama (Dimensions) WIP: Nativity from "Countdown to Christmas" book, Oriental Kimono (Janlynn), MLI The Teacher (gift to the library), Bethany Angel (Marbek) Retrieved from UFO pile: Marbek's Snow Angel, MLI Farmers Market CFSfacts -- where we give you the facts and dispel the myths Myths, with research cites: http://www.aacfs.org/images/pdfs/myths.pdf Newest research blog: http://journals.aol.com/kmc528/Lifeasweknowit/ AOL BLOGS CLOSING OCTOBER 31 |
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On Oct 3, 11:19*pm, Jangchub wrote:
On Fri, 3 Oct 2008 05:08:07 -0700 (PDT), wrote: I read once a title in Readers Digest Happiness is an invention of Holywood !!!! mirjam Happiness and bliss is the natural state of our minds, covered over with defilements, ignorance, attachment, and delusions. *All conscious beings have the ability to remove the pollution of disturbing emotions, delusions and attachment. *It's a pathway which leads to pure mind in the most subtle state. *It required a great deal of hard work on ones own mind. *Nobody can make us happy or unhappy. *Only we can do that to ourselves by the way we label objects and how we view subjects. Hollywood happiness is actually the worst kind of suffering. Victoria "There are known knowns. These are things we know that we know. There are known unknowns. That is to say, there are things that we know we don't know. But there are also unknown unknowns. There are things we don't know we don't know." Donald Rumsfeld http://gotbodhicitta-wangmo.blogspot.com/ Strangely enough i don`t see my answers from Yesterday ,,, If Victoria , you can indeed make yourself Happy by Thinking about it , or training your mind to believe that you are Happy ,,,, Than indeed you are very Lucky ,,, Alas Most Humanity , living and working hard for their life , don`t seem to Have this power ,,,,of make belief ,,, life is too hectic or complicated , and Basic things to be able to live at all , are too urging ,,,, mirjam |
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