LOL Oh, Liz, this is so very funny, especially that you've just now
figured it out! Good thing we had this little discussion, isn't it?

It's also a good thing that you don't really mind!

Still laughing,
Karen Maslowski in Ohio

Ward wrote:
Oh my God! Now I realize what my mother is up too when she "invites" me
over, asks to get something out of the kitchen cabinets, and then goes off
to watch a little TV. Meanwhile I'm moving all the stuff around the kitchen
and announcing at the end of the day, "Now Mother, the blue bowls are in
this cabinet, pots over here, and I put the coffee cups near the coffee
maker", etc. I've been used! And by my own mother!