Maren,
Boys do grow up, eventually. When my son was 15, his life ambition
was to be a crack head in Philly and live on a heat grate. He's now
23, about to graduate from college cum laude with a double major of
finance and global business. So....just hang in there, they all have a
timetable - it's not always what you'd like or where they should be
according to the schools or the books, but it'll happen. Just love
him, pray and try to be good to yourself - lots of bubble baths late at
night did it for me.
I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Been there,

Patti