I'm a terrible ostrich, I'm afraid - head always in the sand when the
flamewars start up

From one ostrich to another, Carrie, honestly.. ride them out.. it's well worth
the effort. Sometimes they'll leave you breathless with the repartee, but
really, it's a wonderful place to ask questions and get honest, helpful
answers.

Tegan

Who we are never changes. Who we think we are... does.
- Unknown