"JaneB" wrote in message
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As it happens, I have a son named Matthew, too.

And have you seen anywhere here presume to tell you how to raise your son?
Or anyone here presume to tell you that they know better than you how to
parent him?

No, I didn't think so.

(You know, if you have nothing to add to rec.crafts.textiles.yarn, there are
other groups that would be more fitting. Perhaps
alt.I.love.my.superiority.complex.)