I rarely get in the middle of spats but I have to defend Dr. Brat (not that
she needs any help from me). After my fire she sent a HUGE box full of
charts. She doesn't really know me but she did an act of kindness. Mirjam,
she is truly a kind person.

Janet

"Mirjam Bruck-Cohen" wrote in message
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Thank you Caryn ,,,,
I don`t worry about not getting along with dr Brat Elizabeth,,,
I learned a lot about unbased unkindnes from her behaviour. But being
the Curious person i am , and reading Loads of books , manuscripts ,
documents that deal with Historical events that started mainly becuase
of hatred. And being a creative person , and in my own way [ as wel as
many of my Lot `s peers do ] trying to understand some of the
moralistic and ethical behaviours that have influenced our lives so
much till this day. The Dynamics or the Source or the Double standards
she [esp] and others in general, constantly show, mkae me wonder . So
i ask and question and try to see the Reasoning [if any] behind it ...

Mirjam, clearly you and Brat will never get along, much like I will
never get along with her. She judges us as inferior to her, it's
obvious.
This is another problem, that puzzeles me ,,, why should anyone think
others are inferior? every person has some qualities and some traits
in which he/she will excell and do better than some others , and
everyone has some traits , that could be enhanced. The beauty , charm
and Success of Humanity comes from sharing , each one his /her best
With the others ,,,, You know something i am not so well in , i know
something better than X ,, etc,,,, I am aware that she Judges Us and
looks down on us ,and i thnk this is my main reason of answering her
back . I respect people as long as they don`t harm others. And i will
not Deffend the rights of Anyone speaking bad of others . In my first
home i was raised by Anarchists, who taught me all were equal.
And that those who thought others were inferior, went to Court for it
, after we saw what such an ideaology can do.
However, you would most likely be happier if you learned to ignore her,
rather than letting her get to you so much that you feel you must post
messages like this one.
I have Written it before ,, if we let her and her type of ideas rule
the internet ,,,, it will soon become the Common thread , all
youngsters will think that this kind of behaviour is the accepted
behaviour, because the Non judgemental , all quietly move out of her
way and ignore this posts of her.... I am not unhappy at all , i am
sad that it is still ok for people to speak /treat others in that
manner... I am not afraid of her , and have a right to answer her back
[hopefully a bit politer ] .
She is truly not worth your time or any emotional energy. We all have
a lot more important things in our lives than allowing one minor pest
to get under our skin, right?
Oh Caryn!!! i don`t feel ok with calling a person with this term ,,,
Thank you for trying to help.
mirjam
back to proofreading , writing a new curator`s paper , back to own art
,,,,, and sewing some new shirts ,,,,