please read this poem and give yourself a hug!!!
http://www.listen-up.org/edu/holland.htm

it helped me many many times with the girls' hearing loss and all the kids'
food allergies. In the beginning of all this there were many days i really
needed it! Still are sometimes.

oh... and read your travel guides well and ask lots of ??s It is your
RIGHT and your job! Don't let any doctor or professional convince you
otherwise.

-- kellie
bergerk at sbcglobal dot net
http://f1.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ber....net/my_photos