Really good point, Vicki. (I see both sides of everything too, it's a
curse)

~~~and here i'm of two minds.
[i have a lot of trouble with seeing two sides to most things]
we are NOT the world police.
**however** we are the biggest kid on the playground. so there ARE
times we need to stand up for the little guy, to keep him from being
bullied. and to take a stand against bullies in general.~~~