But 27 is still very young to be certain that she will never remarry and
wish for children. The biggest consideration is that it might damage her
health.

What I really hesitate to say though, is that coming from a family with such
trauma as she has told us of quite often, limiting children is also a good
idea.

Tina


"Lee S. Billings" wrote in message
...
In article 1058329170.960069@prawn, says...

I heard that "what if..." a long time ago. I think you should pay
careful
attention to the possibility (in today's society, even a likelihood) that
you might remarry and want children. But your physical well-being is
even
more important.

Tina, she's *got* two kids already. I don't think the "you might remarry
and
want children" argument really holds under those circumstances. And given
a
history of difficult pregnancies, I have to say that I don't think her
mother
really has her best interests at heart.

Celine

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